If you fill in your children with your own beliefs and ideas, how and when will they develop their own?
How and when will they develop an identity of their own?
The children born to you are different from you, they should not roam in this world as a copy of their parents. If it so then they will do the same mistakes as you did and follow the same path as you followed.
Give them the freedom, to express themselves. Give them an identity of their own.
Be mindful of the fears and insecurities that are your own and you are projecting on them.
Raise your children mindfully so that they are a personality of their own and not mirroring you in this world.